3 COMMON MISTAKES DONE BY MOTHERS

There are multiple mistakes that mothers or stay home mothers make but I will only name 3,we all know that motherhood or being a mother is a huge responsibility.
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The first mistake is we forget who we are.

Often as mothers we forget who we are, for example before we became a mothers or before we were called that is Sofia mother. We tend to forget that before you became a mom you were YOU and they were certain things that made you happy, you had a life.

For example: we should ways try to reconnect with your yourself by being in contact with your old friends by doing that it will help you as a mom to reconnect will your self,yes i know some times we don't have the time, because we have to care of our little one and family.

The Second mistake is forget to take care of our bodies or to keep fit.

In most of cases mothers after child birth they focus in their new born babies and children as well as taking care of the family. 

Sometimes we forget to keep fit that why in most cases we don't go back to our old bodies we don't work out we are all preoccupied with taking care of the family which good. 

So mommy hit the gym rock that sexy body its not all about the body, it is good for your mental health as well.
  
The third mistake is we don't have me time for ourselves.

In most case we mothers we don't have quality time with ourselves for example; if you are a stay home mom, in the morning you prepare for everybody and after they leave you do the household chores etc. Before know its evening time you are tired and all that.

When you are working mom after work you get home you prepare dinner for the family help the kids with home work  do this and that by doing all that you are exhausted yo do that same routine over and over.

So it is important sometimes to go out and eat alone so all though you feel bad about but it is good for you .it gives you recollect your thoughts and think about what you are going to do after the children grow, something that will fulfil you as a person. 

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